RELATIONSHIPS 101!

Hey Lovely Readers,

Welcome back to my blog. When it comes to relationships,we all want to keep the "butterfly in the tummy" feeling forever. But after a year or two, this feeling disappears and normacy takes room. Here are a few tips to help keep the relationship fires burning. 

1. Bring something to the table besides the damn food! - Cookie Lyon

Have your own goals, ideas, hobbies and career plans. Relationships work best when the two of you are blending together your lives rather than you depending on your partners ideas and goals. Don't take this out of context, I know that in a relationship there has to be a gray area where you will share ideas and life goals, that should not stop you from having your own dream and goals. This will inspire your partner to get out of their comfort zone and support one another.

2. Communcating the right way will spice up your relationship:

Relationship communication involves talking, listening, laughing and arguing. Keep the communication lines open, let your partner speak out their emotions and beliefs. Allow for your partner to air out any differences that may occur. In turn, talk to your partner when the need arises.

A note to the brothers: Listening without responding will save you alot of trouble (thank me later)! 

3. Keep it sexy!

First things first, keep yourself  healthy and fit, this will be a good boost your feel good factors and being sexy will come naturally to you. 

Date nights are not to be taken for granted, no matter how long you have been in a relationship. While you are getting ready for the date, pick out sexy outfit (all men are visual human beings, so keep at it).  

If you are in a long distance relationship, learn the art of sexting. That will keep the relationship flames burning even from a distance.

Thanks for stopping by.

Xo-xo:

Aika

BLACK OUT

You know you are lazy when you blame on the nasty weather for your lack of motivation. I wanted to write an healthy related blog post but my brain seems to be rained on. I hope this weather will change soon and pave way for good old sunny days.

You know how they say gloomy weather calls for black outfits, well they couldnt be more wrong. Black has become my go to colour every single day!

Thanks for stopping by;

xo-xo:

Aika!

RAINY DAY!

Hi Lovely Readers,

The last two days I acknowledged my love for the weather, boy was I wrong. After six long hours of traffic jam, its safe to say I officially hate the weather. But a rainy day is perfect for boots. Now let me go in search of mine and remix  this outfit.

Thanks for stopping by.

Xo-xo;

Aika!

SWEATER WEATHER!

Hi Lovely Readers,

Welcome to my blog. If there is one thing that I have been absolutely loving is the current weather in Dar es Salaam (Minus the rain water filled roads). I have had a chance to wear some of the items that were so hidden in my wardrobe: my sweater, my leather jacket, my suits and my boots; and I am enjoying a cup of hot chocolate as I snuggle in my bed everyday after work. Life could not get any better!. 

The last time I wore a sweater, it was to a lunch situation with my bff a few days before we parted ways. The good thing about sweaters is that you can dress them up or down depending on the occasion. 

Thanks for stopping by.

Xo-xo;

Aika!